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Third in a series on rereading Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice. You can find Part One here and Part Two here.
“People themselves alter so much, that there is something new to be observed in them for ever,” says Elizabeth Bennet to Mr. Darcy in Chapter 9 of Pride and Prejudice. She’s just admitted to Mr. Bingley that she is “a studier of character,” and she’s objecting to Mr. Darcy’s claim that “In a country neighbourhood you move in a very confined and unvarying society.” Even if you meet the same people all the time, Elizabeth suggests, the people are interesting because they’re always changing.
I love what Mrs. Bennet says here when she jumps into the conversation. After Elizabeth says, “people themselves alter so much,” her mother exclaims, “Yes, indeed … I assure you there is quite as much of that going on in the country as in town.” Mrs. Bennet isn’t thinking about whether people can change, or ought to, or whether it might be interesting to an observer to witness such alterations. She’s just determined to object to whatever Mr. Darcy says, especially if it sounds like criticism of her social life.
Which characters change in Pride and Prejudice? Elizabeth arrives at a major turning point in her knowledge of herself after she reads Darcy’s letter: “Till this moment, I never knew myself.” At last she studies her own character, and discovers her mistakes. When she and the Gardiners meet Darcy by accident at Pemberley, she is surprised to see him extending “the greatest civility” to her uncle and aunt: “Her astonishment … was extreme; and continually was she repeating, ‘Why is he so altered? From what can it proceed?’” So Elizabeth and Darcy both change in the course of the novel, learning from the mistakes of the past.
I’m thinking about two questions, then:
Is it believable that Elizabeth and Darcy change?
And, what other characters in Pride and Prejudice are capable of change?
I’m really interested to hear what you think, and I hope you’ll comment below.
Among the many recent articles on Pride and Prejudice marking the 200th anniversary of the novel’s publication is one by Sheila Heti, who writes in The Globe and Mail that “the biggest and best fantasy” of this novel is “not that lovers end up matched, but that a lesson can be learned.” She says, “If Elizabeth were a real person, her humiliation with Darcy would be repeated with other men and other women — yearly, monthly, daily. Or it would be repeated with Darcy, over and over again. She might castigate herself, as she does in the book, but she would inevitably repeat her error.” It’s much more common to argue that Pride and Prejudice is a fantasy because the heroine gets to marry for both love and money, so Heti’s idea is unusual and intriguing. Do you think she’s right that it’s a fantasy that Elizabeth and Darcy can both change for the better, not just temporarily but permanently?
As to my second question, about the other characters and their ability to change — here’s what Elizabeth thinks of her family (after she has “studied every sentence” of Darcy’s letter, as well as every aspect of “her own past behaviour”): “They were hopeless of remedy.” Is she right about their characters, or are any of the other Bennets capable of change? What about Mr. Collins? Or Mr. Wickham?
My page Pride and Prejudice at 200 collects all the posts in this series on rereading the novel, along with links to other essays and articles on P&P.
I suppose maybe I have a different view, but my idea of Darcy & Elizabeth’s relationship is not one of expecting the other to have changed, but rather having accepted the faults of the other, perhaps after learning more about the roots of those faults. So, to my mind, it’s not unreasonable to expect them to have a “happy” marriage in realistic terms, because I don’t see either of them necessarily thinking the other has somehow radically transformed – in fact, in the second proposal scene Darcy doesn’t think Elizabeth even has anything to apologize for, and Elizabeth is still cautious of teasing him too much – so neither of them seem to expect the other to be much different than who or what they’ve been all along. Instead, what’s changed for each of them is their own perception of what they want & need in a mate.
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Don’t they both make efforts to correct their faults, though? Darcy works on being nice to strangers by making an effort to talk to the Gardiners, for example, and Elizabeth’s moment of self-knowledge – “Till this moment, I never knew myself” – leads her to think more carefully before judging other people’s actions. Even when Lydia elopes and it seems pretty clear that her sister’s youth and vanity have led her into trouble, Elizabeth tries not to judge too hastily: she says to the Gardiners, “But, really, I know not what to say. Perhaps I am not doing her justice.”
I agree that their perceptions of what they want and need do change, yet I think they come together in the end not just because they recognize each other’s faults, but because they appreciate each other’s efforts to improve, and to continue the process of education.
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You’re right, of course. I suppose my issue is that I tend to see that as “maturity” – Heti seems to be talking about some kind of momentary “change” as if it were a test Elizabeth and/or Darcy had to pass in order to earn their marriage. I see their changes as the type made by people who are constantly growing & learning, not radical shifts in character. I was looking a bit too closely. 🙂
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Constantly growing and learning, yes. That’s a good way of putting it. Thanks, Amy. I think they both learn, and are changed in the process. Not into totally different people, but better, more mature versions of themselves. Which is what education ought to be about. It is possible to learn a lesson, so that one doesn’t go on repeating the same mistakes forever, and I think that’s true in life as well as in Pride and Prejudice.
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So I think I’ve discovered what it is that bothers me about the popular discussion of Darcy & Elizabeth’s relationship. In the movies, and often in articles written by people who perhaps haven’t read it as deeply or as often as some of us, Darcy is treated as a character who undergoes a transformation, from a stiff, selfish, and unkind grouch to a person who’s suddenly self-aware and thoughtful. But because Elizabeth is the protagonist, and because it’s pretty difficult to convey Austen’s “untrustworthy narrator” on-screen, (or to inexperienced readers) I think we are too often left with an incomplete picture of Elizabeth’s faults & her growth. It’s so much easier to focus on Darcy’s changes because we see him in snapshots, while we’re following Elizabeth through lots of other subplots which make it hard to notice how dramatically she grows.
But! What we learn in the end, if we’re good readers, is exactly what Elizabeth tells Wickham – “Oh, no!” said Elizabeth. “In essentials, I believe, [Darcy] is very much what he ever was.” So I think perhaps the popular perception of P&P to which Heti is responding is one that’s shaped by screenwriters’ inability to show that Darcy hasn’t changed as much as shed an outer layer – while Elizabeth has changed in ways that aren’t as easy to capture through dialogue alone.
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Thanks, Amy. Great point about how it’s almost impossible to show the complexities and subtleties of the changes in film, without the narrator.
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“Change and change about.” People in love change, and if marriage follows love, they will change some more – or they wont stay married.
There’s change of character and change of relationship. Was Mrs Bennet only crossing Mr. Darcy or was she referring to the exchange of intimate relations both in town and country? If possibly so, she was also an observer of people but not so much of character as of relationship. Fits their fictional characters, don’t you think? Cerebal Elizabeth – until she falls in love and changes – and down to earth Mrs Bennet.
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Interesting distinction, Hugh. Mrs. Bennet is defending the country as interesting because there’s always something to gossip about – an engagement made or broken, for example – while Elizabeth finds interest in observing the way people themselves change. Yes, I think that does fit their respective characters.
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I strongly disagree with the comments of Sheila Heti. Both Elizabeth and Darcy are of above average character and intelligence. They will be better in their conduct and their judgement, having gone thru what they did in suffering for their mistakes. Do we not hear of people “turning their lives around” on a regular basis? Will they be perfect? Of course not. They will do and be better in their treatment and judgements of others. Jane Bingley nee Bennet will still be lovely and sweet. However, the Caroline Bingleys of the world will not be able to fool her for long, in the future. Bingley, with Jane’s support, will learn to trust his own judgement much more and will not be pushed around by his “darling” sisters or by his friends. Jane Austen writes in P&P, that once Kitty is pulled away from Lydia’s poison orbit(my words), she greatly improves. Mary will improve as well. Lol, no chance of improvement of Mr. Collins or W—ham. Far too selfish to improve.
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“Poison orbit” — very nice. Kitty, “removed from the influence of Lydia’s example … became … less irritable, less ignorant, and less insipid.” And Austen’s pretty clear on Lydia and Wickham, too: “their characters suffered no revolution from the marriage of her sisters.” But can we be sure Jane Bingley won’t be fooled again in some way by her sister-in-law or others like her? She is indeed sweet, and seems likely to remain so. And her father suggests that she and Mr. Bingley are “so complying, that nothing will ever be resolved on.” I wonder how much Jane has learned from her experiences.
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